Being desperate dating
If you find yourself wanting to call, text, or e-mail someone a whole lot more than they contact you, you've probably figured out that neediness is a turn-off to most people. I feel a lot better about myself now, but there's still a long, long way to go.
Hit the weights and do stuff that you actually enjoy doing. i know i'm not playing nice right now but nothing will help when you just whine about it.1st rule of getting out of depression: DO SOMETHING ABOUT ITsorry again for my tone What makes you think I'm not doing anything?
Everyone knows that being desperate is very unattractive. You're desperate because you can't date, but you can't date because you're desperate. As for the rest, yeah, anxiety makes it hard for me to constantly make eye contact, I need to work on that a bit more, and I don't believe I treat people badly. You have to believe, despite your faults, you still have value. I literally have to tell myself to believe in myself. I know that I have good qualities, it's just that either no one else can see them, or they're not good enough for women to want to date me.
Well, even if it was that easy, that still doesn't solve why you can't date in the first place, which was what caused you to become desperate in the first place. I'm a fat, broke loser, but I've figured out how to love myself -- at least most of the time. You got to figure it out on your own -- and figure out what makes you insecure. How am I supposed to be confident when I have nothing to go by in that aspect of life?
You don't have to be perfect to believe in yourself. Also, don't give your time to someone that treats you badly.
Wouldn't you prefer a partner who believes in themself over someone whiney and insecure? The only other advice I have is to look people in the eyes, especially when you talk to them, and treat people the way you want to be treated.
This article is a good reminder of how I should be and that my neediness is, I suppose, selfish on my part.