There is no need to “go off”, be passive aggressive, or cut the relationship off PREMATURELY.Just make a mental note and adjust the energy you are investing in the relationship. Should the relationship never become what you’d like and has to end, at least you will have peace knowing you kept your integrity and did not end on bad terms.1.“Black or White” Thinking: Being in a gray area is uncomfortable.When we can’t define what is going on, it’s unsettling.Initially, the average woman would have cut it off. Often, we evaluate what things should be occurring in the current state of our relationship and if they aren’t, we (over)react. Allow for differences and don’t assume the worst-case scenario every time things don’t go your way.If you feel like certain markers aren’t occurring along the way that indicate growth during the early stage of dating, simply make mental adjustments.
The little inconsistencies that rack our brain, they aren’t personal.
It’s why we go to college and choose a traditional career; we desire security.