Tired of online dating
Sometimes I just get tired of dating, and that goes for internet dating and real life hook ups as well. Maybe you need to reexamine YOUR approach to women???? I have met men like that, who come at me too fast and I just run!!!! I'm not suggesting that people should be interested in any one who contacts them.
It is nice to find new people to enjoy, and adventures to experience, but overall, hitting the reset button over and over again, does nothing more than to start the game once more, and sometimes I just want to enjoy the fruits of my efforts, and not just the points on the top of the screen. I like to take my time getting to know someone, not him planning our wedding after ONE date!!! But I wouldn't reject a man simply because he doesn't exactly match a long list of requirements, he has mediocre photos, or because there wasn't instant fireworks within a few minutes of a first date / meeting.
That's because I was making new friends, I had no direct intention of dating anyone, and I was fascinated more with the computer online experience than the people themselves. And no, I am not talking about the profiles that are looking for friends with benefits, booty calls, or other unrealistic requirements.
For those old enough to remember before the Internet, how did we get dates? And for those computer savy and old enough, remember Prodigy and AOL? You were willing to put the time and effort into getting to know someone instead of brushing them aside.
It seems it is impossible to post the perfect profile or perfect pix. We know what we dont like, but are we sure of what we do want?
And no, I am not talking about the profiles that are looking for friends with benefits, booty calls, or other unrealistic requirements.
Just the ones where one honest person is lookingfor another honest person. good luck in your search then as soon as you send the E-mail block the person Women get 10-50 emails a day...It is more like a big shopping catalog with everything on sale, but many times you have to return those things because they were not a good fit.